Clementine Ford is immediately recognisable, which is each a blessing and a curse. As a public determine, she’s spent quite a lot of power constructing a group, and that in itself requires a Herculean combo of effort, empathy and time. Her fearless on-line presence goals to platform ladies and their rights, which means she is doing worthwhile and visual work on the forefront of the combat for gender fairness.
On the flip facet, there’s quite a lot of public scrutiny (and haters!) that comes with being a pressure for change.
‘I’m a reasonably open e-book with individuals, notably by way of how accessible I make myself. However there are some belongings you simply need to declare off limits,’ she says on setting boundaries between her skilled and private life. It’s a fragile tight-rope act, being weak and obtainable for individuals on-line, with out giving a lot of your self away that your privateness is compromised. It’s not one thing that essentially impacts Clem’s day-to-day life – but it surely’s an implicit think about quite a lot of issues she does.
In her new e-book How We Love, Clem extends one other chunk of herself to her viewers. The memoir is an exploration of affection in a number of types – parental, romantic, platonic, younger – and takes a lyrical deep dive into this world of difficult and typically turbulent feelings. In a method, it’s a giant thematic shift from her earlier written works. And in different methods it’s not. It’s about being human and compassionate, it’s about our generosity and the important care we prolong to others. This deep exploration of affection feels evermore salient in a post-pandemic world.
Clem’s days are a juggle in the mean time, with a press tour underway and the world slowly opening again up once more. However as you’ll see, Clem’s processes and routines are nicely oiled after years of freelancing and dealing within the inventive industries. That is how she does it!
When I’ve my son, I normally get up round 7:30am. On my kid-free days, I’ll nonetheless wake at across the similar time however would possibly return to sleep till 8 or 8:30. It’s all a really far cry from my college days, that’s for positive!
I hate to be a cliche, however the very first thing I do is “attain for my cellphone and verify my messages”. I’ve a espresso filter machine that’s set on a timer, and I’ll bounce up and seize a cup after which toodle round on my cellphone in mattress and begin my “work” day.
I by no means used to perform nicely within the mornings, however I’m significantly better at it now. I might say I’ve lastly develop into a “sort of” morning individual.
I begin work as quickly as I get up, and I can do it from mattress! I am going by means of the entire messages I’ve acquired in a single day, verify my emails and verify my diary for any issues I’ve to try this day or which might be due. I’ve a TERRIBLE sense of organisation and have to mainly be consistently reminded of my duties. It’s a perform of getting Generalised Nervousness Dysfunction (GAD).
One morning ritual is I all the time bathe and prepare for the day, though a lot of my work is completed at residence. I discover placing on make up very soothing, and I suppose as a result of quite a lot of my work additionally includes movies or face stuff, I really feel extra snug usually being ‘prepared’.
I don’t have set lunchtime or breaks, and really regularly work by means of the day with out consuming lunch. I’m extra of a giant dinner sort of individual, whereas grazing by means of the day.
Whereas I used to be writing my e-book, I discovered afternoons an excellent time to start out my phrase depend for the day. I like to put in writing later into the evening, beginning at round 3 and ending at round 9 or 10pm. Now that the e-book is completed, my typical afternoon duties contain making content material for Instagram, planning any upcoming issues or speaking with my lengthy struggling and wonderful supervisor about numerous issues I’ve forgotten to do.
I don’t really feel particularly energised within the afternoon, though I discover it the perfect time for writing. I develop into very anxious about how a lot of the day is gone and the way unproductive I really feel I’ve been. I feel, objectively, I’m fairly a productive individual however I’ve horrible anxiousness and self loathing about my shortcomings, and spend quite a lot of time berating myself for not being adequate. It’s as unhappy because it sounds!
I don’t have a set time I end work, however when I’ve my son I usually cease between 5pm and eight:30pm so I can choose him up, get him fed and prepared for mattress. Then I’d work once more after he’s gone to sleep.
I *love* dinner. I take into account a giant feed on the finish of the day to be considered one of life’s nice pleasures! I’ll sit down and have a small snack when my son eats dinner so he feels that it’s one thing we do collectively, however usually talking dinner earlier than 8:30 is wild to me. My household rising up had been all the time late eaters – it nonetheless feels glamorous to me to be sitting right down to eat late. I additionally like to cook dinner, so after my son goes to sleep I’ll take my time making a meal that’s scrumptious, extraordinarily vibrant and filled with flavour. I’ve a easy guidelines for what makes an excellent meal – a little bit of protein, one thing leafy and inexperienced, one thing with a little bit of crunch, chilli, garlic, and plenty of completely different colors on the plate.
I used to play curler derby so in summer season I like to go for avenue skates to unwind! I additionally get pleasure from lengthy walks with mates, beer gardens on Sunday afternoons and getting out to the nation. Fairly commonplace 40 12 months previous stuff!
I discover it unimaginable to ‘swap off’. If you determine how individuals do that, please let me know.
I normally fall asleep round 11:30pm – midnight. I like to sleep, however since having a baby I’ve maintained round 6 or 7 hours an evening. I don’t assume I really want quite a lot of sleep, however I positively felt it within the new child days once I was solely having 3 or 4 (damaged) hours an evening.